Worthiness


Worthiness

When you look at an infant, a 1 year old, a toddler, what do you see? What I see is that they know without a doubt that they are the center of their universe.  They have little fear, still have trust….they are totally tapped into their desires, naive and innocent. They do not see any  darkness or negativity in the world. They do not understand suffering. They expect immediate gratification. They are perfect. 

Before imprinting begins, when you are that baby, your innate sense of worthiness is strong . Your first imprinting comes from your family of origin. Whether spoken or not you got your sense of your worth by how you were valued in your family. Children are very energy sensitive. As a child you did not have to be told your value, you sensed it from those around you. That was just the beginning……

Then came imprinting from the media, your religion or church, your school, and certainly from your peers. Imprinting goes on and on. Each piece shaped your sense of  your worthiness. Much of your imprinting probably taught you that it is what you do that determines your value, often more or equally, as important as who you are. From an early age much of what you learned about life emphasized the external pieces…..achievement, winning, success.   And the ever present gauges that you have used to judge your own worth, and that of others,  has been comparison and competition. These handy, and often unhealthy, tools have rounded out the external focus by which you learned  to determine worth. Here is the kicker…..it was all an illusion, a lie!!!

The truth is you are here…..you have worth. How you choose to share it, what you do to build upon that worth is what brings value to your life. Your worth is a given. You are worthy AND you can choose to offer value to the world by how you express yourself.

When you make choices in alignment with your soul/spirit your choices are based on honesty, compassion, love and integrity. You allow your “worth” to shine through. Being in alignment with your values and allowing your worthiness to shine is of service to your life, the consciousness of humanity, and the world at large.